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waiting to find out if im ganna be homeless

Posted by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 11:53 PM
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So this is ganna be kinda long but i dont have anyone that i can talk to. I really have no one.

So my hubby got into some trouble with the military and is confinement until october1st. the kids and i moved from alaska to kansas so i could have some family support with the kids and such. we are getting payed by the military until the first of august. so the last time i saw hubby i ended up getting pregnant. we already have 3 others. so now i am almost 33 weeks pregnant. so what it comes down to is that i have had nothing but trouble with my family since ive been here. talkign about me behind my back and stealing my money and food. i do everything for them just to try and help out. but my mom and sister keep stabbing me in the back. so with the combonation of the fact that after the first of august i wont have any income and i will be due two weeks later, i cant work and there for have no money for rent and such. so i decided to move my self and the kids to my dads house. every since all this stuff with hubby started happening my dad has been telling me that we can come stay with him and him and his wife will help us out. so about 6 weeks ago i told my dad that we were ganna be moving down to atlanta to live with him until hubby gets out and i can get a job. so were supposed to be moving down there on the 1st. which will put me at 34 weeks. its ganna take us atleast 4 days driving to get there. but now all of a sudden yesterday he tells me that he concerned about his wife getting stressed out with all of us there and that he needs to talk to her more about us coming there. he ends up having to call me back, so he calls back tonight and says "we're still talking about it, i will let you know what we decide tomorrow." im like ok what the fuck, you do know that i have no money for rent and i have already given my 30 days notice and most everything is packed up. plus i dont have any where else to go. so now im sitting here. 33 weeks pregnant and 3 kids and possibly no were to go. there are no shelters in my town and i have no one to talk to. just waiting for an answer to if i have a place to live or not. i have been so stressed the last 2 days, i just dont know what to do. im so afraid that were ganna be homeless. i dont know what to do 

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Posted by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 11:53 PM
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lovethelake
by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 11:58 PM

go apply for asssitance on Monday!!!

sblynch05
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 12:00 AM

i already get food stamps, but even cash assistance isnt enough to pay all my rent, let alone my utilites. we live in a small town and theres not alot of resources

CassaNova
by Member on Jun. 24, 2012 at 12:00 AM
Does your dad know this? That u and the kids have nowhere to go? You'd think if he knew the severity of the situation he would be like whatever just come here and we will figure it out. I really hope so but if not maybe a hotel? Don't know $$ situation but even if you have to charge it ya know. Good luck mama stay up
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sblynch05
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 12:08 AM

hw knows that i have no where to go, i have maybe $1500 and we dont have any credit cards and have very low credit scores so wer cant even try to get one. ive tried taking out loans and borrowing money but ended up with nothing

Pandapanda
by Amber on Jun. 24, 2012 at 12:30 AM
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I'm so sorry! The Salvation Army can usually help out in emergencies.. hell, call his CO and tell him the situation! 

USAFMommyndWife
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 12:37 AM
There might be a mothers home or women's shelter in another town that can help.
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ntmy3197
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 12:57 AM

Tell your dad the severity of the situation! If that still doesnt work out, you should look up church programs that help mothers in your situation. My church helped me through so much. Good luck mommy! TRY and stay relaxed... Your baby will pick up on your stress. :) <3

wife2jeff
by Joy on Jun. 24, 2012 at 2:30 AM
Wow, that sounds like a difficult situation. I'm sorry:(. Hoping things start looking up for you. Hugs!
Mrs.Andrews
by Mandy on Jun. 24, 2012 at 3:06 AM

Wow. I am sorry. I can't imagine how hard that must be. What about the military? Could you call someone and get some sort of support or housing? It was my understanding that they would take care of spouses.  Especially if the man in the military is letting his family down. Also, go to the churches in your area and see if any of them can help you. I'll be praying for you!

KatieGirls2
by KatieB on Jun. 24, 2012 at 3:20 AM
I'm so sorry hun that would be so hard, check into some of the things pp have said and here's to hoping your dad let's you guys come!
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