:'( i feel like such a failure as.....

TO TELL U THE TRUTH MA DISHES ARE PILLED HIGH TO AND THE LONDURY IS OMG HIGH BUT I DO WAT I CAN WITH THE DISHES I WILL WASH A FEW AND THEN SIT AND THEN GET UP AGAIN AND DO A LIL MORE I HAD MA HUSBEND GO TO THE DOLLER STORE AND GET PAPER PLATES AND WITT THE LONDURY IHAVE MA KIDS HELP PUSH THERE BASKET TO THE WASHER I FORGOT TO TELL U BUT I DO HAVE 3 KIDS A 10YR OLD BOY,8 YR OLD GIRL,3 YR OLD BOY AND 37 WEEKS ALONG PREGNANT WITH A GIRL DEVELOPED A AMBILICAL HURNIA .JUST HAND IN THERE MAMMA I KNOW THAT IT AINT EASY SPECIALY WITH LIL ONES AND WHEN U ARE SO CLOSE TO THE END AND WONT EVERY THING CLEAN AND SANITICED FOR WHEN THE BABY DICIDES TO COME DONT WORRY BOUT UR HUBBY THEY KNOW THEY HAVE TO HELP AND LIKE IT WELL THATS WAT MINE SAYS CAUSE THEY KNOW THAT WE ARE ALREADY DOING MORE THEN WE CAN WITH CARING A BABY AND TAKIN CARE OF THE OTHERS

Sweetie sometimes it's just too much. Nothing wrong with letting things slip once in a blue, just catch up to it a little bit at a time. (during times I'm feeling my crappiest I'll do one room a day during the week-except for the bathrooms, I'll do all those in one day-and get to whatever's left over on the weekend).  

Thank you. I developed an umbilical hernia with my last pregnancy and it never went away.

Quoting giggless1987:

TO TELL U THE TRUTH MA DISHES ARE PILLED HIGH TO AND THE LONDURY IS OMG HIGH BUT I DO WAT I CAN WITH THE DISHES I WILL WASH A FEW AND THEN SIT AND THEN GET UP AGAIN AND DO A LIL MORE I HAD MA HUSBEND GO TO THE DOLLER STORE AND GET PAPER PLATES AND WITT THE LONDURY IHAVE MA KIDS HELP PUSH THERE BASKET TO THE WASHER I FORGOT TO TELL U BUT I DO HAVE 3 KIDS A 10YR OLD BOY,8 YR OLD GIRL,3 YR OLD BOY AND 37 WEEKS ALONG PREGNANT WITH A GIRL DEVELOPED A AMBILICAL HURNIA .JUST HAND IN THERE MAMMA I KNOW THAT IT AINT EASY SPECIALY WITH LIL ONES AND WHEN U ARE SO CLOSE TO THE END AND WONT EVERY THING CLEAN AND SANITICED FOR WHEN THE BABY DICIDES TO COME DONT WORRY BOUT UR HUBBY THEY KNOW THEY HAVE TO HELP AND LIKE IT WELL THATS WAT MINE SAYS CAUSE THEY KNOW THAT WE ARE ALREADY DOING MORE THEN WE CAN WITH CARING A BABY AND TAKIN CARE OF THE OTHERS

Im getting a lil better it seems

Quoting Devious103102:

Sweetie sometimes it's just too much. Nothing wrong with letting things slip once in a blue, just catch up to it a little bit at a time. (during times I'm feeling my crappiest I'll do one room a day during the week-except for the bathrooms, I'll do all those in one day-and get to whatever's left over on the weekend).  

I feel the same I cried when I was talk to my hubby about how I feel so lazy he works and then comes home and cleans I feel that it's my job as the wife to do Yeh house work this is our first baby and I'm 31weeks and it hurts to do anything but I feel so bad and like a bad person he just laughs and says honey your working a full time job make our baby a healthy place to live but still I feel bad

I was having the same problem. I now eat an apple a day and its gotten so much better.

You are definitely not the only one! The house got VERY VERY bad when I first got pregnant. No energy, sick all the time. I wouldn't worry about it too much. There are more important things than a clean house. Like a healthy baby.  =)

I know how you feel...except this is my 1st baby. DH and I don't have any other children (just our 2 cats) and I am 25 weeks pregnant. I have no energy and the house is not clean....iI do what I can but sometimes that is nothing at all.....

Me too...I am a teacher so I have been at home all summer. I do what I can, but it isn't much. I am 25 1/2 weeks and I have pain in my back and when baby hits her growth spurts I start cramping....no energy.

Quoting sep18mom:

I feel the same I cried when I was talk to my hubby about how I feel so lazy he works and then comes home and cleans I feel that it's my job as the wife to do Yeh house work this is our first baby and I'm 31weeks and it hurts to do anything but I feel so bad and like a bad person he just laughs and says honey your working a full time job make our baby a healthy place to live but still I feel bad