i donno how to deal with the pain and the bleeding which will cause during delievery..... i m totally scared to see blood,
thnks for the advice
When I had my kids I didn't see any blood at all other than what came out of me after wards (like with a pad on you know ). With my daughter I had some "loopy medicine" the nurse called it until i was able to have an epi then i was fine until I felt the need to push. She was out in 3 pushes (6lbs 6ozs). With my son I thought it would be the same... My son I was induced and i was doing good until I had my water broken then the contractions picked up and I had the epi but I don't think it ever worked with him. It hurt with him I told my mom and hubby if I ever said I wanted kids again to remind me of the pain I was in right then. He was 9lbs 6ozs (on'y 1.2 an in longer than my daughter and boy did he feel 3lbs wider than her lol). This is the third baby and I am going to try going med free this time as long as I am in good healthy of course. I would watch The Business of Being Born it is really informative and a real eye opening. I wouldn't be afraid of the pain. Women have been doing this for thousands of years and you can too. Your body will know what to do and I hope that you do great!
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