*hug* Have you read emergency manuals on child birth, to prepare yourself, just in case?
How far away does he work? Unless you have a history of very fast labors, he will probably get home in plenty of time. My labors were 14 and 16 hours. That's more than enough time to notify him and get him home.
Do you have a back up plan just in case though?
yeah i knwo ur sared so a i i a pregnant with four babies and very uncomfortabe theses days more time goes by i get more and more uncomfortable
I know with my first I worried about what if I could not get a hold of hubby. What if he did not hear the phone. But it all worked out. He worked nights and there was no one there for phone calls. He did have his cell but with the sprayers he had to use I worried. But he heard it and was home fast then when he usually would take.
I am certain he will get there in time. If not, talk to your hospital about it. I think they could help set you up with someone to be on call and ready to drive you and DH can meet you if he's far away or something. Is this your first baby? B/c if so, you'll have plenty of time. You can always get on the phone and talk to the nurses on duty at the labor and delivery unit to talk you through while you wait for DH.
Or, do you have friends or family near by who are willing to stay with you or be on call to help you?! Don't psyche yourself out. And remember if your pregnancy is a healthy one, you'll do fine.
My first pregnancy i woke up at 9am on the dot. Stood out of bed and my water half broke. It trickeld down my leg. I was 6 days from my due date and I had an 11am doc appointment anyway. I was in no pain, so I took a shower and got myself ready, took my time, woke up BD and we headed to my appointment and they admitted me and we had a baby 20 hours later!! I wish I waited longer at home, sitting that long in the hospital with pitocin and being poked and proded sucked! Good luck to you! God bless!
I understand why you are worrying. The fact that your last birth was 23 hrs helps alot. both of mine were very fast and with my first the broke my water at 7 and I had the baby at about 9 and with my 2nd my water broke at 4 and I had the baby at about 6....just try not to stress about it too much and just remember that you do have a plan.
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