35 Weeks On Thursday and Still Haven't Told The Inlaws

Quoting MamaFrankie:

Why wouldn't say something? That's kinda rude you all never told them. Despite their personal belief that they think you have enough lord, you're still carrying their grandbaby. Id feel so disrespected if I was your inlaws

Quoting zebbyzebby06:

Shes prob upset noone said anything

Quoting kcangel63:

No. They would definitely say something then. This is something else. I think they are going the "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all" approach.

Quoting zebbyzebby06:

Shes prob upset noone said anything

Quoting zebbyzebby06:

I know ppl like that too but id be too upset to even say anything. Myabe she doesnt wanna offend u and thinks u r gaining weight and that u have a friends us pic lol. You gotta go on tht show secretly pg

Quoting kcangel63:

No. They would definitely say something then. This is something else. I think they are going the "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all" approach.

Quoting zebbyzebby06:

Shes prob upset noone said anything

Quoting kcangel63:

LOL! I told hubby she probably just thinks I'm fat.

Quoting zebbyzebby06:

I know ppl like that too but id be too upset to even say anything. Myabe she doesnt wanna offend u and thinks u r gaining weight and that u have a friends us pic lol. You gotta go on tht show secretly pg

Quoting kcangel63:

No. They would definitely say something then. This is something else. I think they are going the "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all" approach.

Quoting zebbyzebby06:

Shes prob upset noone said anything

I plan to do the exact same thing but with my own family for the next and subsequential children.  They said the same sort of uncalled for and hateful remarks about our SECOND child and though some of them have come around (now that she's almost three years old!) some of them are still just as judgemental. As a matter of fact, my own mother said "Thanks for ruining my Thanksgiving" the year we announced our second pregnancy.  And that was ALL she said.

I flat out told my grandma the last time she mentioned that we didn't "need anymore kids" that the only thing she was ensuring by saying those things was that she'd never meet her great grand child.

Good luck with the inevitable encounter.  I hope you share the story of how that goes down!  LOL.

I was just thinking about this the other day. Wondering if you had ever announced it officially to them or whatnot. How interesting! I would love to be a fly on the wall when they meet the baby.