would you find a new doc/midwife

Strange ~ but yup...xo

I would have walked out immediately and never looked back.  That is absolutely horrible!

excuse me? they said that WHY? highly inappropriate and I would of lost it. I'm sorry you were spoke to that way

 are you on drugs or something? I mean what was the reason behind saying that. I only ask because if they said something like that maybe you were being stubborn and didn't want to change something that could kill your baby? then no you should not switch because you would act the same with any doctor. I just cant imagine a doctor just meeting with you and saying that for no reason.

Why would they say that? Do you have any health indication that would warrant that? I've had two m/c, and am high risk w asthma and kidney issues. But my doc has been 100% positive about it and is extra careful and gives me the confidence that I'm going to have a beautiful healthy little boy. (I do also have a 7 yr old son) he's really helped keep me calm which a major factor. Stress can sometimes really affect a pregnancy. Assuming everything is ok medically and physically, the last person you should have it from is your caregiver. :-( even if there is a reason for doubt, your caregiver should still be supportive, while being honest. I don't know, if it were me I would definitely switch. Good Luck!

That wasn't very nice :-(

Quoting rayroe2:

 are you on drugs or something? I mean what was the reason behind saying that. I only ask because if they said something like that maybe you were being stubborn and didn't want to change something that could kill your baby? then no you should not switch because you would act the same with any doctor. I just cant imagine a doctor just meeting with you and saying that for no reason.

I would get a new one.

I would want to know the reason why they said that and if it as a medical concern but they were talking that way so I would find a new doctor and take their "reasoning" to the next doctor.

My doctor said that because i'm 6 Weeks and theres still no heart beat on my twins.and because once miscarried once and a stillborn in August Im doing everything right to be safe for my babies

Quoting rayroe2:

 are you on drugs or something? I mean what was the reason behind saying that. I only ask because if they said something like that maybe you were being stubborn and didn't want to change something that could kill your baby? then no you should not switch because you would act the same with any doctor. I just cant imagine a doctor just meeting with you and saying that for no reason.

Definitely