Mine are 4 & 7. We have not told them yet.
we didnt tell them(mine are 5,4,3,1) until the 12 week ultrasound. We thought our oldest would share with everyone once we told her...she actually did really good about waiting. We showed her the ultrasound and she said mommy that looks like a baby, i said yes, its a baby in mommys belly...she was so excited. She told the rest what it was
It has been different times with all them. This time I have waited a few extra days. With our last being a miscarriage. I just needed this couple of extra days. This weekend we plan on telling them. I feel they need to know early enough. Hard to not talk about it around them. It has helped that hubby works night and they are in school during the day when he is home. So we can talk. I know they think something is up. I have been asking each one of them how they would feel again if we had a baby. My oldest last night asked why I was asking this again? How come you are talking to us not together?
As soon as i was sure (mine are 8,6,5,4) Only one was a girl she just told me she needed a sister. She got her wish had the baby on my 4yr old's bday. he didn't care he was a big brother now. and she was his. They all took it well




- RheaF
on Nov. 30, 2012 at 8:21 AM