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Drinking while pregnant?

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I was on another site, and a few pregnant women said that they thought having a drink every now and then while pregnant was okay.  I had to wonder if anyone here thinks it's okay.  Aren't people concerned about fetal alchohol poisoning?  Just curious.  I would never drink while pregnant.  I think it's just too big of a risk.

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by on Dec. 1, 2012 at 9:07 PM
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by on Dec. 2, 2012 at 6:32 PM
All my issues I had with my first too except my son came a little earlier than she did but not by much

Quoting rayroe2:

right, I felt so bad and I had so many problems this baby.

Quoting mommyof2kids306:

I did that with not son because I didn't know also and I was very scared

Quoting rayroe2:

I didn't know I was pregnant and drank some the first trimester and I felt really bad but I didn't know I was pregnant because I was not trying or planning too.

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by Bronze Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 6:36 PM

I've had women tell me their doctors told them that it is okay to have one drink per week.  It's something I wouldn't risk though.

by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 5:01 AM
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Baby relies on us to do what is best for them, especially whilst they are growing inside our tummies...
It is better to be safe than sorry because if anything did go wrong, you dont want to soend the rest of your life wondering if the drink you had caused sonething to go wrong with your baby... I couldn't live with myself and I just think drinking and smoking whilst pregnant is selfish.. It's time to put baby first, not what we want first... Just not worth the risks..
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by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 6:41 AM

my doctor told me it was fine for wine a few sips will not cause alcohol poisoning in the fetus. every once in a while ill have a few sips of red with my spaghetti

by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 6:43 AM

I see no problem with drinking in moderation during pregnancy and have never heard that 1 drink can cause FAS.

by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 6:48 AM
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Quoting unspecified42:

Nope, I'm not concerned about having a drink every now and again later on in pregnancy. No study done has ever found that a drink here or there caused any ill effect.

No study has ever been done that showed that a drink here or there is safe either. The Surgeon General says there IS NO KNOWN SAFE AMOUNT Of alcohol.

That's good enough to make me not drink while pregnant.  Not to mention the whole one drinkthing? The majority of drinks you consume in a restaurant can be one drink-or 3.  Unless you ask-how would you know-that wine glass of wine you drink  could be 2 glasses (as a serving is considered 4-5 ounces)

I know that the margaritas at Chilis are ALL between 1.5-3 drinks. Most martinis are 2-3 drinks. Based on the serving size for alcohol.

by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 6:51 AM

U.S. Surgeon General Releases Advisory on Alcohol Use in Pregnancy

Monday, February 21, 2005
Contact: HHS Press Office
(202) 690-6343

Urges women who are pregnant or who may become pregnant to abstain from alcohol

U.S. Surgeon General Richard H. Carmona today warned pregnant women and women who may become pregnant to abstain from alcohol consumption in order to eliminate the chance of giving birth to a baby with any of the harmful effects of the Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD). FASD is the full spectrum of birth defects caused by prenatal alcohol exposure.

The spectrum may include mild and subtle changes, such as a slight learning disability and/or physical abnormality, through full-blown Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, which can include severe learning disabilities, growth deficiencies, abnormal facial features, and central nervous system disorders. This updates a 1981 Surgeon General's Advisory that suggested that pregnant women limit the amount of alcohol they drink.

"We must prevent all injury and illness that is preventable in society, and alcohol-related birth defects are completely preventable," Dr. Carmona said. "We do not know what, if any, amount of alcohol is safe. But we do know that the risk of a baby being born with any of the fetal alcohol spectrum disorders increases with the amount of alcohol a pregnant woman drinks, as does the likely severity of the condition. And when a pregnant woman drinks alcohol, so does her baby. Therefore, it's in the child's best interest for a pregnant woman to simply not drink alcohol."

In addition, studies indicate that a baby could be affected by alcohol consumption within the earliest weeks after conception, even before a woman knows that she is pregnant. For that reason, the Surgeon General is recommending that women who may become pregnant also abstain from alcohol.

"Thanks to our ever-increasing body of scientific knowledge we are now able to identify more and more causes of premature births and birth defects," Dr. Carmona said. "And we must use this knowledge, not for knowledge's sake, but for the sake of the health of children everywhere."

Dr. Carmona made this announcement prior to participating in BirthDay Live!, a 10-hour live television program on the Discovery Health Channel that shows childbirths from three locations across the country. This announcement and participation in the program are both part of Surgeon General Carmona's "The Year of the Healthy Child" agenda: a commitment to help improve the holistic health of children from pre-conception through the teen years. For more information about "The Year of the Healthy Child," visit

The Surgeon General's advisory is attached. ###

Surgeon General's Advisory on Alcohol Use in Pregnancy

Thirty-two years ago, United States researchers first recognized fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS). FAS is characterized by growth deficiencies (or decreased growth), abnormal facial features (specific facial features), and central nervous system (or brain) abnormalities. FAS falls under the spectrum of adverse outcomes caused by prenatal alcohol exposure called Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD). The discovery of FAS led to considerable public education and awareness initiatives informing women to limit the amount of alcohol they consume while pregnant. But since that time, more has been learned about the effects of alcohol on a fetus. It is now clear that no amount of alcohol can be considered safe.

I now wish to emphasize to prospective parents, healthcare practitioners, and all childbearing-aged women, especially those who are pregnant, the importance of not drinking alcohol if a woman is pregnant or considering becoming pregnant.

Based on the current, best science available we now know the following:

  • Alcohol consumed during pregnancy increases the risk of alcohol related birth defects, including growth deficiencies, facial abnormalities, central nervous system impairment, behavioral disorders, and impaired intellectual development.
  • No amount of alcohol consumption can be considered safe during pregnancy.
  • Alcohol can damage a fetus at any stage of pregnancy. Damage can occur in the earliest weeks of pregnancy, even before a woman knows that she is pregnant.
  • The cognitive deficits and behavioral problems resulting from prenatal alcohol exposure are lifelong.
  • Alcohol-related birth defects are completely preventable.

For these reasons:

  1. A pregnant woman should not drink alcohol during pregnancy.
  2. A pregnant woman who has already consumed alcohol during her pregnancy should stop in order to minimize further risk.
  3. A woman who is considering becoming pregnant should abstain from alcohol.
  4. Recognizing that nearly half of all births in the United States are unplanned, women of child-bearing age should consult their physician and take steps to reduce the possibility of prenatal alcohol exposure.
  5. Health professionals should inquire routinely about alcohol consumption by women of childbearing age, inform them of the risks of alcohol consumption during pregnancy, and advise them not to drink alcoholic beverages during pregnancy.

In the United States, FAS is the leading preventable birth defect with associated mental and behavioral impairment. There are many individuals exposed to prenatal alcohol who, while not exhibiting all of the characteristic features of FAS, do manifest lifelong neurocognitive and behavioral problems arising from this early alcohol exposure. In the United States, the prevalence of FAS is between 0.5 to 2 cases per 1,000 births. It is estimated that for every child born with FAS, three additional children are born who may not have the physical characteristics of FAS but still experience neurobehavioral deficits resulting from prenatal alcohol exposure that affect learning and behavior.

The outcomes attributable to prenatal alcohol exposure for the children of women whose alcohol consumption averages seven to 14 drinks per week include deficits in growth, behavior, and neurocognition such as problems in arithmetic, language and memory; visual-spatial abilities; attention; and deficits in speed of information processing. Patterns of exposure known to place a fetus at greatest risk include binge drinking, defined as having five or more drinks at one time, and drinking seven or more drinks per week.

Despite public health advisories and subsequent efforts to disseminate this information, including a Surgeon General's advisory in 1981, recent data indicate that significant numbers of women continue to drink during pregnancy, many in a high-risk manner that places the fetus at risk for a broad range of problems arising from prenatal alcohol exposure including fetal alcohol syndrome. For example, data suggest that rates of binge drinking and drinking seven or more drinks per week among both pregnant women and non-pregnant women of childbearing age have not declined in recent years. Many women who know they are pregnant report drinking at these levels.

In addition, recent analysis of obstetrical textbooks suggests that physicians may not be receiving adequate instruction in the dangers of prenatal alcohol exposure. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists advises against drinking at all during pregnancy. Nevertheless, only 24 percent of obstetrical textbooks published since 1990 recommended abstinence during pregnancy, despite 30 years of research since the first publications proposed a link between alcohol exposure and birth defects. Scientific evidence amassed in these decades has fortified the rationale for the original advisory against alcohol consumption during pregnancy. Continuing research has generated a wealth of new knowledge on the nature of fetal alcohol-induced injury, the underlying mechanisms of damage, concurrent risk factors, and the clinical distinction of alcohol-related deficits from other disorders.

Alcohol-related birth defects are completely preventable. A number of resources are available to assist healthcare and social services professionals in advising their patients to reduce and refrain from alcohol in pregnancy. These resources include the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, NIH (, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (, and the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (

NOTE: All Surgeon General press releases, reports and other materials are available at


Note: All HHS press releases, fact sheets and other press materials are available at

Last revised: January 4, 2007

by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 7:05 AM
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Well I'm a healthcare professional and I say its a huge no no. We have no idea how it affects our baby in utero. Alcohol easily crosses the placenta, so while you may not be drunk, you have no idea how baby is feeling. All the doctors and residents I work with all agree. We've had pregnant women come in admitting to a drink here and there and we've educated them on the risks and told them not to do it again.

Quoting lulu_tattoos:

Most health care professionals agree that an occasional single serving during pregnancy is perfectly fine and without significant risk to fetus.
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by Bronze Member on Dec. 5, 2012 at 7:21 AM

I had a glass a handful of times when I was preggo with DD. I waited till after the 1st trimester and it was always with food...and it was at parties I attended. DD was born happy and healthy. I'm not too concerned about it. But it's not something I would do on the regular. With no2 now I doubt I will have the opportunity to go out like before so I will probably not drink at all.

by on Dec. 9, 2012 at 2:22 PM

 I have heard that a glass of wine is okay but I would never tempt it. I would never even try it. To me, it's too risky and selfish.

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