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i am not marrid

Posted by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:34 PM
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Question: the last name of your child

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dads last name

moms last name

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who last name did you give your child... im rely stuck on this one for my future baby.

by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:34 PM
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mrsladyface
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:35 PM
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it depends on the situation. if the Father is an active role in the child's life, the child should have his last name. If he is no where to be found and doesn't want anything to do with either of you, give it your last name.

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newyorkmom92
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:38 PM
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your absoluty right... hes there 100% since day UNO. 

Quoting mrsladyface:

it depends on the situation. if the Father is an active role in the child's life, the child should have his last name. If he is no where to be found and doesn't want anything to do with either of you, give it your last name.


mem82
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:41 PM

My first has her father's last name.

Paty123
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:42 PM
Dads last name! I mean that is unless he's not around. Plus do u plan on marrying him in the near future? If so u'll gave his last name to. My sister gave her son both his last name and hers.
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hplesha
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:43 PM
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My first has my name because it was the best thing to do at that time, and my youngest has his dad's name because we are getting married soon
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newyorkmom92
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:46 PM

yes we want to get marrid. yeh i heard people do that... i did that with my daughters last name because i couldnt decide :/

Quoting Paty123:

Dads last name! I mean that is unless he's not around. Plus do u plan on marrying him in the near future? If so u'll gave his last name to. My sister gave her son both his last name and hers.


Clei420
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:48 PM
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My kids prior to marriage have both mine answer there dads last name.
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RaLeighsMommy11
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:49 PM
With dd DH & I weren't married but I gave her his last night. We are married now so obviously this baby will have his last night to lol. I think the baby needs to be given the dads last name regardless if the mom is married to him. Unless of course the dad doesn't want any part in the baby's life or dont want to sign the birth certificate then obviously I would say give the baby the moms name
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SamiiSecurity
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:51 PM
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Me and my SO have been together a little over 4 years (we're 20) and our DS has his last name. And no sign of being married anytime soon(;
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newyorkmom92
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 4:54 PM

<3 <3 i like how she said "no sighn of being married anytime soon" .... 

Quoting SamiiSecurity:

Me and my SO have been together a little over 4 years (we're 20) and our DS has his last name. And no sign of being married anytime soon(;


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