I'm 36 weeks along in my pregnancy and through it all I've felt so unwanted (sexually) from my partner. It's my first pregnancy and that was always my biggest fear as I'm sure it is for many woman. There's no passion, romance, or urge it seems from him. It's kinda funny but it's like he waits till I fall asleep to masturbate, that makes me feel so unwanted. Through out the pregnancy I gave him the benefit of the doubt thinking maybe he's stressed over work and tired but now 8 months have gone by and there's no way that's the issue. It's the little things as well that have been absent during these last 8 months like rubbing my back or feet, or asking do you need help with that would you like me to cook for once or clean. No consideration at all for how I feel or how much my back hurts. We had such a great relationship and sex life prior to the pregnancy and now I feel like I've lost my own identity. He works all day an I'm home slaving away. Would like some thoughts and options from others.
on Dec. 31, 2012 at 3:20 AM