Welcome to CafeMom
join our community and talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

We won't show your age or birthday to anyone unless you want us to!

Why is it?

Posted by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 11:52 AM
  • 23 Replies

I'm going to try and ask this question as calmly and nicley as possible...

Why in the world would someone get a new puppy, weeks before their baby is due? 

I mean, I've seen 3 first time moms do this now... I cant imagine being up with night time feeding, diapers, comforting my crying newborn AND dealing with a puppy. 

Am I missing something? Lol


For our family we don't have pets yet, and wont for quite some time. (Even thought we would LOOOVE a dog lol) With DH being in the Military, always moving, and 2 kids its just a little much for me. Plus dogs are expensive after a while. 2 boxes of diapers AND dog food?! credit card

Daisypath Anniversary tickers

Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

Lilypie Maternity tickers

Posted by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 11:52 AM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies:
mrsniebo
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 12:39 PM
1 mom liked this

I personally wouldn't want to introduce a pet to the mix when a baby would be arriving shortly. I am 30 weeks pregnant and spend my days cleaning up after a 2 yr old (who isn't overly fond of the dog we have) and making sure she doesn't have accidents. I'd have to be crazy to want to add a puppy to our family at this time.

RhondaVeggie
by Bronze Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 12:46 PM
3 moms liked this
I don't know. I get wanting to get a dog, some people just don't feel a family is complete without one, but the timing is crazy. Expense and hassle aside I'd want the dog to have more time to settle in before introducing a baby to the mix or get the dog after the baby arrives. Introducing a new pack member just after introducing the dog to your pack is asking for trouble.
Posted on the NEW CafeMom Mobile
Byrd15
by Bronze Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 1:00 PM

Exactly... My friend is 33 weeks with her first and just got a puppy... A little boy puppy... I think its crazy! 

Quoting RhondaVeggie:

I don't know. I get wanting to get a dog, some people just don't feel a family is complete without one, but the timing is crazy. Expense and hassle aside I'd want the dog to have more time to settle in before introducing a baby to the mix or get the dog after the baby arrives. Introducing a new pack member just after introducing the dog to your pack is asking for trouble.


Daisypath Anniversary tickers

Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

Lilypie Maternity tickers

Devious103102
by Platinum Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 1:48 PM

because some people CAN and they can handle it (and others just don't know what they're getting into).  I have 4 children (12, almost 11, 7 & 9 months) and 2 dogs (almost 9 & almost 5), 2 cats and 2 snakes AND my husband is in the military as well. Not to mention I've fostered quite a few puppies & adult dogs for a few weeks at a time. Now I know not everyone can handle this large of a load but we can so why not.

Byrd15
by Bronze Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:29 PM
Oh I agree that there are LOTS of woman who are awsome enough to handle it.
To me it seems crazy though and all of the ones so far I've seen her rid of the dog later :/
And you're awsome, just saying! Lol


Quoting Devious103102:

because some people CAN and they can handle it (and others just don't know what they're getting into).  I have 4 children (12, almost 11, 7 & 9 months) and 2 dogs (almost 9 & almost 5), 2 cats and 2 snakes AND my husband is in the military as well. Not to mention I've fostered quite a few puppies & adult dogs for a few weeks at a time. Now I know not everyone can handle this large of a load but we can so why not.

Posted on the NEW CafeMom Mobile
teri4lance
by Bronze Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:30 PM
1 mom liked this

people seem to forget that this world is like - 65% dumbasses. at least. 

Randi02
by Gold Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:36 PM
1 mom liked this
When I was pregnant with my first (33 weeks) we got a puppy. We already had a one year old dog, and saw this guy being advertised by our local shelter.
I don't think it was bad, at all. I was just careful about putting my son on the floor sometimes because the puppy was around 120lbs and super clumsy by 8 months LOL
We have two cats, one dog (one passed away), and we got a 2 year old bunny off of Facebook 5 months ago. Baby #4 could be here any day :)

Oh, and we cloth diaper- so spending $400 a month on pet food probably isn't that big of a deal.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
GoddessNDaRuff
by Bronze Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:44 PM

I don't know. I think it's the practice for the baby. I refuse to get a dog until my kids are old enough to help with it's care. My husband is on my nerves about wanting a damn dog. Like you we're military. He deploys every other year. I don't want to deal with the kids and a dog.

avaana06
by Bronze Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:50 PM

When I was 30 weeks pregnant with my twins we got a puppy from the shelter. Why? I have no idea. It just felt right. I was home all day and probably lonely. He got hit by a car, while my husband was walking him( he bolted and snapped the retractable leash) and died. It was so sad. We did not get another dog. We waited for a few years before we got another. I realized after birth that I didn't want another.

momtomy7kids
by Michelle on Jan. 11, 2013 at 2:51 PM
1 mom liked this

I agree, I'm the only one here most of the time because my husband works long hours. I have the kids to deal with let alone a new puppy. I just know the older kids would neglect a dog and I'd be stuck taking care of the dog. My oldest son is 11 and he whimpers about wanting a dog.

Michelle
Mom to 4 boys and 3 girls with #8 on the way
Emily, Jordan, Sara, Jason, Aiden, Chloe, Nick and EDD 7-29-13

Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Welcome to CafeMom
join our community and talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

We won't show your age or birthday to anyone unless you want us to!


Featured