are we selfish...

im bad at keeping my own secrets lol.  BUT i do NOT think its selfish.  i want to keep names a secret, but i already told the girl name i like haha.  i figure with gender, if they know they can buy you more stuff lol.  now THAT i think is selfish :)

no-it's your baby but prepared to get a hard time about it for the rest of your pregnancy

i've only known just over 24 hours that i'm pregnant and i'm already having a terrible time trying to keep it a secret.  thank goodness i have CM lol.   we want to do an announcement and gender reveal all at once so i have to keep quiet until easter.  one day in and i'm already going nuts.  lol.  no it's not selfish.  if i wasn't so horrible with surprises and anticipation, i'd wait to find out the gender until birth. 

hm I don't understand, sorry, but how would that be selfish?

I wouldn't like to do that but no, it is not selfish.

Quoting TAG_ur_it:

i've only known just over 24 hours that i'm pregnant and i'm already having a terrible time trying to keep it a secret.  thank goodness i have CM lol.   we want to do an announcement and gender reveal all at once so i have to keep quiet until easter.  one day in and i'm already going nuts.  lol.  no it's not selfish.  if i wasn't so horrible with surprises and anticipation, i'd wait to find out the gender until birth. 

Quoting doulala:

hm I don't understand, sorry, but how would that be selfish?

No.  It's no one's right to know what your baby is.  if you find out, it's your decision to share or not.

oh--   Well then THEY can get pregnant and learn the gender prenatally.      ;- /

 lol

Are you planning to have any ultrasounds?     If not then it's a non-issue...
;-)

Quoting goobersmom713:

Our families want us to find out...well all but my mom lol

Quoting doulala: