I have learned the hard way not to tell family members you baby name choices until they are set in stone. I have a cousin, whom I have always been real close with. Since I was pregnant with my oldest son, he's 6, I have had a baby girls name picked out. She never mentioned anything to me on it until she got pregnant 4 years later. She decided that was going to be her girls name. She had a boy and I ended up having another son. I am now pregnant with my 3rd child and I still have my heart set on this name. My cousin keeps insisting if I have a girl it's not right for me to use this name first, since family will think she is copying me. I honestly would not use the name if she did, but since it hasn't been used by any of my family or close friends, I still really want to use it. Would it be wrong of me to use it. I keep getting hounded daily by this cousin about what I think I'm having and my baby names and I just keep telling her that my husband and I are deciding. I haven't told family that I'm going to a gender ultrasound on Friday just so I'm not hounded. Is it wrong for me to use the name still?