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Anyone else feel so not sexy?

Posted by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 8:49 PM
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I feel so fat! And I don't see how my husband finds me attractive... Actually I don't think he does even tho he claimed he does... Anyone else feeling this way?
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queenb87
by Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 8:53 PM
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I'm only 8 weeks and feel the exact opposite of anything sexy.
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AthenaGrace
by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 8:56 PM
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I'm 28 weeks and feel like a whale. Ugh. I'm really not sure whether or not he still finds me attractive, although he says he does. I have a history with eating disorders, so this is particularly difficult for me. :/

jesuschild06
by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 9:03 PM
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awwww. you can make it ! we are here for you !


Quoting AthenaGrace:

I'm 28 weeks and feel like a whale. Ugh. I'm really not sure whether or not he still finds me attractive, although he says he does. I have a history with eating disorders, so this is particularly difficult for me. :/



jesuschild06
by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 9:06 PM
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depending on babies position, i might feel fat while sitting, but mostly, no. the bigger i get the more excited i get. monday ill be 23 weeks, and i havent gained much. ( i havent weighed myself since last drs appt jan 4th, but then was only 9-10 pounds). i dont know how im not packing on the weight, but aparentlybaby is taking EVERYTHING i eat, and leaving none for me :p

teagsmommy
by Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 9:33 PM

SO swears I'm sexy but at 23wks and bigger than I was at 38 with my last I'm pretty sure I just look like a big fat whale!!!! You are definitely not alone :)

livingrlovesong
by Bronze Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 9:55 PM

 Ugh. Its not just me then. I am only 11 weeks and Im at the point where my baby bump looks more like the results of eating at a buffet. Im normally not a big person so its obvious that I have gained weight. I hate it. I feel so unattractive.

Tiffany.Rose
by on Jan. 18, 2013 at 10:04 PM
I know the feeling, SO swears he still finds me very attractive, but at 30 weeks pregnant.. I feel like a whale! I feel ugly and fat, but he swears otherwise!
I've lost weight with this pregnancy, so I definitely look twice as big as I did with my first. Only 9 more weeks for me tho
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williammom132
by Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 10:10 PM
I feel unattractive I'm 20 weeks but my dh say I am attractive but I'm just fluffy
southernbelletx
by Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 10:13 PM
I'm 33 weeks and have only gained 7 pounds but I feel huge too
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Mazie0723
by Bronze Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 10:17 PM

I am almost 39 weeks I've gained 40 lbs and feel like a cow. Dh still wants sex and says he finds me attractive but when I see myself naked I wanna cry. Thank God I am almost done.

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