And she didn't take it very well. I posted a few weeks ago my plan for labor/delivery/after birth visitors. Well during labor I'm fine with visitors during delivery it's just gonna be me and my dh, and after I give birth my boys will be the very first ones to see us and the new baby then only our parents will be allowed in that day so we can have time to bond with her. And all other visitors will be allowed in the next day.
She didn't like this idea saying that no one will want to be there if they can't see her the day she's born. Well this is our wishes and I'm not changing my mind. Do u think its selfish of us to do this? I told her that they can't stay all the next day if everything went ok the day before.
on Jan. 19, 2013 at 10:22 PM