not into it..

Our sex life has pretty much stopped. I'm 23 weeks now. He's irritated but understands I just don't want it. It HURTS!!!!!!!!

Tell him that it's a side effect of pregnancy and he'll have to suck it up and jack off. You are the one going through everything, lack of sex won't freaking kill him.

I think it's ridiculous that he's angry with you for something that is normal, especially in the beginning of pregnancy.  You may get your sex drive back when you're more into the 2nd trimester or you may not get it back until after you have the baby.  

I've never dealt with anything like that though, my husband has always been very supportive. 

I agree. Rob wouldn't get angry over something like that. LOL Maybe a little pouty but nothing serious. We'd probably laugh about it.

Quoting JadeTigr7:

I think it's ridiculous that he's angry with you for something that is normal, especially in the beginning of pregnancy.  You may get your sex drive back when you're more into the 2nd trimester or you may not get it back until after you have the baby.  

I've never dealt with anything like that though, my husband has always been very supportive. 

I have been the same way throughout this pregnancy so I understand where you're coming from. It is important that you communicate your feelings to him. A man has needs. I'm not suggesting that you do something you don't want to do but there are other ways to "please" him and keep him happy.

Yes I am the same way right now. I usually give in about once a week it's to keep him happy cuz I know it must be rough. But it's just the hormones and hopefully will get back to normal soon

i am in exactly the same situation!  totally not interested in sex but i know it will cause friction in our marriage if the sex stops completely. I try to get into once a week. It's not always easy, and i'm totally not advocating that you do ANYTHING that  you're not comfortable doing!  if/when you DO have sex, is it enjoyable for you?  in my case, i'm never in the mood, but once it's actually happening, i enjoy it.  I also feel like it's a vicious cycle: you don't really want to, he gets mad which makes you unhappy which in turn makes you want it even less.....  try connecting on other levels more frequently.  hold hands, kiss, hug. touch a lot. maybe do something new and fun together to get that excitement pumping :)  good luck!

Yes, this is happening with us too. we still do it on the weekends, but during the week I am dead tired and dont want to. It bothers my husband because he says once we have some good sex it makes him want it more and he feels like I am not into him if we dont do it. Well, I just continue to explain that I am tired, it is the last thing on my mind at bed time and if he wants a chance he better rub my back, hug me, cuddle with me, etc. We just had this conversation today!

It's normal to lose your sex drive in pregnancy. It's not ok for him to be very angry with  you for it. You need to talk to him about how you feel, and he needs to hear you. If that doesn't work, you guys could probably benefit from marriage counseling.

Same here. I had to take progesterone suppositories til I was 13 weeks and it made me jus NOT want to have sex at all. When I got off those, it got better. But now, I'm 27wks5days and I jus don't wanna do it. My DH doesn't push me. He is pretty understanding which is a shock because when we've had slow spells pre-pregnancy, he'd be all "if you don't start putting out, I'm leaving" lol but he's been really supportive during this pregnancy. You should tell ur DH it's not all about him anymore. He has no right to be angry with you over that. That's jus petty and childish. Good luck!

 ive lost my desire too, but usually just let DH have his way and be satisfied. I feel like he shouldnt have to suffer just because im too tired or something.