maternity pics and such... (kind of sad not sure what to say or do at this point...)
So last night me and DH were talking before bed about maternity pics. I had said that I wanted to get them done this time with this one.(See I didn't get anything like that done last time when I pregnant with jr) and I figured I'd bring it up now so could talk about it and think about it and plan for it, stuff like that... Well dh acts like he really doesn't get the point of doing them, like they are stupid or something. Long story short he said he thought we should do them in April which would only be the first part of the second of my second trimester. Now idk when exactly people take maternity pics but I thought it was much later in their pregnancy than that... I even told him that last night... and he just sighed really big like he was pissed at me for wanting them and went on reading crap on his phone... I mean he acted the same way when I was pregnant with jr... and I swear it almost made cry then and there... I mean I know it shouldn't be that big of a deal and I probably won't bring it up again because I don't want to fight over something so idk small in all reality and something that is such a materially thing as that but it just makes me sad that I can never have a pic of me ever being really pregnant... I mean like i wanted a memory of it, if that makes any since... and I even told him that last night and he still acted that way... I just don't know what to do or say at this point... and this on top of the way things have been going for weeks now cuz of my hormones and me being a well witch because of them, which I know may not be right but I really do try my hardest be kind to dh but it isn't always easy when I feel like he's putting his stupid pc game over his family and his son... (which granted this might just be hormones talking too cuz that usually doesn't get to me but it has been lately... )
But my main thing is about his reaction the idea of maturnty pics... What should I say or do about it?
Has anyone gone through anything like this before? If so what did you say or do about it?
Advice would be greatly appreciated thank you in advance ladies...