I am 16 & currently a few days away from being 19 weeks pregnant.My boyfriend & father of my baby is 19 & he lives with me at my parents house.Well I'm really upset because he doesn't have a job,he has a car but it doesn't run so pretty much has no car.He claims he knows he needs to get a job but it's cold outside & doesn't wanna walk to apply to places (lame ass excuse I know).Anytime I bring up the fact that he needs to get a job he throws a fit because he feels it's not fair that I'm not working which is just bullshit in my opinion.He seems really sincere about feeling bad about not working & knows he needs to but he's waiting for a possible,not even gauruntee,opportunity to work with my dad in the spring making pretty decent money.So because of that POSSIBLE job he won't apply somewhere cause what if they hire him then he has to quit to work with my dad for a few weeks then job hunt all over again.I'm just started to feel like he's enjoying the free ride & it pisses me off.He claims he had a car,job & apartment last year but lost the apartment in a fire,had to sell the car because of it etc. So why the fuck can he accomplish that for himself but not for his unborn son?! I really don't want to tell him to leave because that'll be the end of us & I have no clue where he'll go.I just feel like he's not taking this seriously when this is what he wanted (a baby).I guess I'm just asking for advice,support..anything really.
Also please don't bash my parents for me being pregnant or letting a 19 yr old living with us,this is not about them & it kills me when people talk poorly of them.
on Feb. 25, 2013 at 8:45 PM