Is anyone else planning to exclusively breastfeed their baby? I am and this will be the first time I have done it. I am just so concerned I won't be able to even though with my first child it took forever for my milk to dry up even though he was exclusively formula fed. so many things were horrible about my first pregnancy and I want things to turn out great this time. Last time, my bf at the time (now my husband) were seperated and I was living with my mom and him and my mom were in the delivery room and they just couldn't get along. My mom was mad I gave my son his dad's last name and then my bf was pissed I took the baby to my mom's house instead of going home with him. I just want everything to be perfect this time and not have to deal with any family drama or have my child in the NICU again. Would you allow visitors immediately after having baby? I am thinking I am against it because I want my son to be the first besides us (mom and dad) to see and bond with baby. Is this being selfish??