As if being pregnant isn't stressfull enough... dh was laid off for a month, which is fine, we are okay, but they told him to expect to go back middle of march..aka.. any time. When he goes to work, he will be gone, usually 2 weeks at a time. As soon as a three bdrm rental house opens up, we are moving, I already have 5 kids, and this march is just busy... this week my 1st grader has a play, on performance today, two tommorow. Next week my oldest has all his yearly appts, and I have kindergarten screening for my soon to be 5 yr old. So the next two weeks are crazy, but if dh leaves before the baby is born for his next job... it will be even more difficult.. I have help, but still it will be hard.
Dh and mil are driving me crazy voicing their very strong opinions as to when she can be born.. not joking.. dh doesn't want her to come till after the 20th because he wants her to be an Aries.... I'm serious here.. this is not a joke, he is very admit that he does not want another pisces in our home that one is enough... really, i am not joking.
I'm gsb +, but I have fast labors, very fast. I live 30 min from the hospital, I've never gone past 39 weeks. Mil keeps going off about how she just needs to stay in there till she comes out.. oh and that I dont' need antibiotics that they will hurt the baby... I want to go in at the 39 week mark, which would be the 15th, start the antibiotics, then pop my water and get it done... its what we did last time and it worked out great. I shouldn't have to worry about accommodating everyone else's wants... I'm the one pregnant, I'm the one juggling everything else, I'm the one who has her pelvic bones grinding every time she walks, I'm the one up at night with contractions, I'm the one not sleeping for more then 30 min at a time, I'm the one who is going to give birth... You would think that after 5 kids they could learn to just stfu and be supportive...
I'm about ready to break down and just sit on the floor and cry, or storm off and hide away till after the baby is here. They seem to forget that I'm the one that is pregnant and I can't meet everyone's demands, I just cannot.