Okay, so, I'm 16 and pregnant with my first. I am so tired of listening to people tell me i'm not ready. I understand that. Who really is when their pregnant. My aunt is having her fourth and admits she is not ready. But there is one Woman in particular who irritates me the most. My boyfriends Cousin is always on my ass about what i have planned. she stares at me, laughing a if waiting for me to realize my life is "over". she made it seem as if mine and my boyfriend's happiness about the baby was Niave and childish. she gets mad at me for not telling her what i have planned and even though my boyfriend's mom has witnessed how much i put in for the baby, his cousin insists on drilling me everyday about what i have and even laughed in my face yesterday night because my first baby item was a high chair. saying i wouldn't be able to use it till the baby was 6 months to a year. She nit picks at everything i do, and i don't want to fight back because when i get mad and fustrated i burst into tears and cry (not a pregnancy symptom i particularly admire) how can i prove to her that i AM doing everything right? I am taking all my prenatal pills, i am with idk HOW MANY pregnancy programs. is it worth it? is she worth the time? please tell me!