For starters, I am NOT pregnant...yet..I do however, already have a 4 y/o little girl. My Fiance' and I have recently been talking about having another one, and soon because I didn't want them to be to far apart in age. As of already they are/would be..in my opinion.Things just have not panned out the way we hoped they would in order for us to start trying for #2..I brought up the conversation the other day that if/WHEN we get pregnant again are we going to find out this time what the sex is? (We did with my daughter) I want it to be a surprise and he said that there is no way in hell that he can wait and wonder what I'm carrying. lol I do understand his point, I really do, he wants to know so we can "prepare for that gender." I told him that now a days there are so many unisex baby things and nursery sets that it wouldn't matter. As far as the naming goes, I said pick names for both and then we would be prepared. lol...My point is I want the surprise and the excitement of not knowing. After all, it obviously can only go either way..lol. One issue that I do have is if I look at the monitor I can read it bc I worked in OBGYN for 3 1/2 years, constantly looking at US daily... :( So what turn my head? lmao...I had a C-Section with my daughter so I know that I will be a repeat...that mostly takes away of knowing when he/she is coming, so why not at least have this a surprise?? For those of you out there that say let him find out and not tell you....REALLY? I know him better than he knows himself and I can read him like a book so I would be able to figure it out in no time. Not to mention if he randomly buys things leaning towards 1 gender then its obvious!!
I want to see how many aggree with me or him?? And if you were one that didnt find out tell me how it went, was it easy to do or did the antisipation drive you nuts?