needle phobic and having my 3rd c-section in sept . i had generals for my c-section so i was fully knocked out . as there no way in hell a needle was going in my back it took them to get one in my arm. and bloods are hell for me . im very very phobic . so this time i really want dh to be able to be in the room but no way i can do it so midwifes are talking about drugging em so i do not know whats going on anyone ever had this ?