Crazy 1st Time Daddy... Can He Stay By Her Side?
So my hubby has always been.....a bold person. He speaks his mind and can be pretty intimidating. He's very anti-medicine and has seen a doctor once himself in the 7 years we've been together, and that's when he was forced to have emergency surgery. Long story short, he refused all pain meds after... and crazy man had only been awake a couple hours before he started putting his pants on, demanding they remove his IV because he was going home, they ended up calling security -.- He's not at all violent, but he can be a bit of an ass.
He's very concerned for me and baby, I'm having a csection in a little less than 2 months. He doesn't want our daughter out of his sight. He told me today that during my surgery last year (I was already kind of out of it) a nurse dropped a needle on the floor and was going to use it on me, had he not spoken up. This is the kinda thing he's concerned about with our daughter. We're still discussing vaxing, but his main concern is they're going to do something careless, so he is stating that there is no way anyone is taking her anywhere even for a second without him.
As a new mom with no idea really what to expect I thought I'd turn to you ladies. I'm so concerned he's going to end up having security called on him. They can't legally take her anywhere without our permission, right? I just know it will be a tense situation if they try to tell him he has to stay put. I know the majority of society is probably trusting enough to be fine with someone taking their newborn for a second, to be honest I'm even that way, but my husband, not so much, and I do feel it's his right even if I/hospital staff think its a tad crazy.