


Quoting Mariah-1987:
That is so messed up on so many levels and by the sounds of it he will never understand that. I'm pretty sure you call that rape!



I am not trying to agree or disagree with what has happened. I am thinking considering how far along you are that you were laying on ur side. So he would have to take your underwear down or off and position your legs to actually get inbetween them and position himself to actually insert and through all of this you never woke up? I have been woke up many times by my hubby during the night wanting to get some I am sorry I dont find it to be rape, I mean if you are in not a mood to have sex with him and u know that he wants it why wouldnt u do something to satisfy him so this doesnt occur if you dislike it. Sex is not the only way to get him off js...

And you didn't wake up? My Hubby wakes me on occasion for sex, and vice versa in the middle of the night but I certainly couldn't sleep through it! I am kind old school when it comes to sex too. He doesn't ask for it too much, so when he does I give it to him even if I am not in the mood. And late in the pregnancy if its uncomfortable I would try to make it up to him in other ways. If he rapped you I certainly think that is wrong!

I agree with NoraDun.. But also something about the post just doesn't make sense.. missing information.
Quoting NoraDun:And you didn't wake up? My Hubby wakes me on occasion for sex, and vice versa in the middle of the night but I certainly couldn't sleep through it! I am kind old school when it comes to sex too. He doesn't ask for it too much, so when he does I give it to him even if I am not in the mood. And late in the pregnancy if its uncomfortable I would try to make it up to him in other ways. If he rapped you I certainly think that is wrong!

I hate seeing that these other posters are saying you shouldve did something to appease him... NO you are not his sex slave you are his wife and partner in life. You dont OWE him sex OR any other sexual deeds. Sorry. No. Just no.
- dd898f
on May. 4, 2013 at 10:03 AM