so of course having a 4yr old is "joy" in itself, but once u add on the stresses of pregnancy how do you cope. not saying everyday is a tough day, but there are definitely times when she demands her attention or she acts out for attention and my energy level is shot and my patience is short. you guys have any ideas for inexpensive or at home activities to keep her occupied. im 22wks and shes already tired of hearing the baby excuses and i dont want to talk about it too much with her and make her despise having a lil brother coming. any ideas or advice? thanks moms!