First off, Im 12 weeks 3 days with my 2nd child. So the past 3 days I have been to the ER twice for vaginal bleeding. The first time wasnt too traumatic, my fiance and i were having sex and there was blood so we went just to be sure the baby and I were OK. This morning at 6am, I woke up and my panties were soaked in blood. I went to the bathroom and there was so much blood in the toilet I freaked out, woke him up and fainted. We rushed to the ER, they admitted me right away having been seen two days before with a threatened miscarriage. They give me an IV for fluids. An ultrasound that showed the baby was ok and active with a steady heartbeat. The ultrasound also confirmed no bleeding behind my cervix or under my uterus. They gave me a pelvic exam and found and removed a blood clot the size of a golf ball. (TMI so sorry) The first ER visit the exam wasnt too stressful, the doc said there was some clotting but nothing bad. The second ER visit they found exessive clotting. ????? The bleeding as now stopped and my vitals improved. The doc says she wants me on bed rest which is understandable, but that there is still possibility that i may miscarry. what i dont understand is if my cervix isnt showing signs of miscarriage and the baby is perfectly fine, why did she diagnose my situation as impending miscarriage? I am so confused. I dont want to lose my baby. I dont want to wake up everyday scared of losing my baby. both docs at 2 different hospitals told me the same thing but didnt really tell me anything if that makes sense.
If anyone can please open my eyes, even just a little, id really appreciated. Im so scared, Im nervous. I dont want to stress :/