I am 27 and I live in CT.
I am pregnant with my man's baby. It is a girl and she is due Sept. 2. It will be his second child and second daughter.
It is a mess because he and his ex(?) had a baby girl in Jan. He goes back and forth between us and I am getting tired of it.
He told me they made a pact where he would stay with her for their daughter's first 3 months. Well it has been 5 months. She is 2 years older than him (he is 32, I am 27).
I don't think she knows about me. She does know that we were friends (I used to buy weed from him).
He plays us both. He hates she got fat and ugly and he just can't get into having sex with her. She repulses him sexually. I know how much he loves sex and watching while he is doing it. (She is not an attractive person at all, kind of manly) Yet he can't leave her yet. They both were arrested in Jan (felons and it is a long story). Then he had his father arrested and he is not allowed to go to his father's house.
Is he using both of us for a place to stay?
He doesn't work (besides dealing) and he drives her car to my house. She works and goes to school so he has alot of free time.
He said he just needs her monetary help to pay some court fines this week and then he is out of there.
Should I wait for him? I am getting tired of this back and forth stuff .