yes i would be upset. but depending on the reason for why he couldnt consistently stay there that would determine if it would be legit or not. you know?
Depends on why. If they get sick because of blood and stuff easily then no...but if they were just not wanting to becuase they wanted to go fishing or play video games then yes! My husband left to get some food during the labor part. Honestly could have cared less if he chose not to be in the room the second time...but we were having a really rough patch in our marriage at the time...but for future kids I want him in there. But if he chose not to because he was just uncomfortable I woudn't care as long as he was AT the hospital. Or I would want him to stay the night unless my mom was there after I had the baby. I feel like I need someone there overnight. So I would expect him to stay at least one night with me. Maybe when I have my third child I woudn't care at all though...
Well we have only had our second in the hospital and I let him decide what we wanted to do. My sister said she could watch our oldest if he wanted to. He decided to the first night and go home the second night.
If he had no good reason to not stay, I would be.
Yes. He wouldn't dare and he doesn't want to leave my side anyway.
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