Im 29 weeks along with my 4th and my dh moved his friend in about 2 months ago. His friend does nothing to help and asks us to cook him meals. He came out of my sons room and asked dh to microwave him some chicken bites. He stays in my 5 year old sons room all day and gets upset when my son wants to hang in there with him. Its his room... hello... I have been having bad back pains and neither my dh or his friend will wash dishes or take out the trash or anything. I feel like freaking screaming at them. My dh stayed home "sick" from work and played on the computer all day. I wish i could take a sick day like he does.