My due date is November 17th, but we have our c-section set for the 14th of November, the doctor said that if my sugars are out of whack or something else comes up making me have to have the baby sooner then we will have to do it November 7th or October 31st. my husband says he FORBIDS! me to have a baby on October 31st because he is superstitious and that all baby's born on October 31st are bad and cursed. I tell him that if this baby needs to be born that day and it is life or death then it will happen. he said no it wont and we will find a different doctor or he will (put a plug up there). I feel he is being selfish but i don't know.... also my doctor says it is medically necessary for me not to have any more children and to have my tubes tied, is it really 100%? and i tell him if we want anymore babies then we can adopt and he says no because all the adopted child that he knows of are always bad and hard to raise. his little brother and sister are adopted and yes they do have some problems that can be with any child, even your own. so i guess i feel he is being selfish over that too... please help me i don't know what to think.