So dh & I were ttc since may & nothing until now & he has suddenly changed his mind to the point where I can't even mention pregnancy around him! I have known for almost two weeks that I'm preg but I just can't seem to tell him! So I'm just being extra nice cooking home cooked meals being really affectionate so my older kids can be happy & we can all have happy memories incase this goes bad. I can't imagine him leaving he would have to pay child support for 4 kids! And alimony! But I don't want to live with a miserable man either! He's such a planner & worry wart! I know everything will be ok! I just want him to be as over the moon excited like I am!
I'm thinking of having a cake made with my ultra sound pic on top then having it delivered to his work! Or having an edible arrangements delivered to his work with a card telling him! I want to do something big! & I know if he's at work his coworkers will be excited for us/him & help boost his mood about the idea!
My symptoms are crazy right now so on Saturday he said are u sure your not pregnant I said pretty sure but I will test in the am. I tested w/ my clear blue digi w/ week estimator & it said pregnant 3+ so he was like that better be wrong and unhappily left our bedroom. I took another test & then showered he didn't talk to me for a while but ended up talking w/ me not about the pregnancy. We will see how this unfolds. My other test is sitting on our master bathroom counter with two lines next to the one that says pregnant. I'm gonna give it a few days hopefully he comes around.
on Aug. 28, 2013 at 7:04 AM