See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Lets allow our hormones to take charge!!!
Here is mine..
I'm told frequently I'm tiny, that they looked like that "when I was 3 months pregnant" (I'm 31 weeks) I don't find it flattering, actually, that makes me feel like shit. I have a very long torso, and baby boy is sideways not filling the space correctly, those who make these harmless comments. Those making these harmless comments, have a shorter stature, and are much more proprtional. Yes I aknowledge they are harmless. But I feel like shit when they say it. I feel like I'm not doing enough for my baby. That he isnt getting what he needs from me. I know its not the truth of the matter, but in that moment, I feel like it is. Then again, I feel like shit when same said people make comments about my size when I'm not pregnant.
Sorry, its a very sensitive subject for me, because I have sisters who had eating disorders growing up. While then I was successful in not following their footsteps, as I get older, I find myself a little more then self-awear of my bodies appearence.
Unfortunantly for me, no matter what I have said to them about their comments, they do not stop them