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Fiance is a jerk and i am like a single mom...

Posted by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 6:15 AM
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i am like 18 weeks and my fiance and i get into a fight almost every day i get stuck going to my apppointments by myself only time he seen the kid is in picture from the ultrasound. he spends most of have time working on un-important "projects" that he dont hang out with me or his kid and when we do we have sex and it hurt cuz down there is closing up at first he didnt want anything to do with the kid he even threaten to leave me now he acuses me of lying and cheating and hiding stuff when i dont i dont know wat to do...

by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 6:15 AM
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Princess111201
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 6:18 AM
I couldn't really follow this. Why does he think you're cheating?
bellawomen
by Member on Sep. 2, 2013 at 6:19 AM
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I hope you do not plan to make this person your husband!!

I suggest you find a family member or friend to move in with.  It is SO important for you to have a good support system.  You need to beat him to it before he suddenly kicks you out and you are scrambling to find a place for you and baby.

I would look into finding a doula (check out DONA International for one in your area).  That way no matter what is going on, you will have completely unconditional support person during your delivery.  If you have any questions about a doula, please private message me.   I have been a doula for 8 years, although I have not practiced in the last year because I am in nursing school.

mamiperuana2013
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 10:53 AM
Run!
mem82
by Ruby Member on Sep. 2, 2013 at 11:00 AM

Walk away. Men like this don't change. 8( I'm sorry.

5tyli5hLensT
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 11:52 AM
Ick, walk away. he's not worth the stress. hugs
tammy_lynne
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 12:11 PM

  You and that baby are better off without him. 

Scared_Vampire
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 2:29 PM

cz i hang out with one of my friends that happens to be a boy and he wants to hang out to get inmy panties 

New.OrleansLady
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 2:30 PM

Leave.... it won't get ANY better once the child is here...you have 20wks to get things straight before the child is born. 

Scared_Vampire
by on Sep. 2, 2013 at 2:32 PM

"i changing for the kid honey" thats all he say then he said i changed

ilovekeith12
by Member on Sep. 2, 2013 at 3:49 PM
How old are y'all ? How kids do you have ?
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