I've had many (over 15) and might be in my early stages of another I'm 7 weeks 3 days now. It's hard but out of the many heartbreaks that almost killed me emotionally the one thing I have learned is it's not my fault. (no drugs, drinking, smoking, and had all the tests done doctor's don't know why I can't carry to full term).
Be careful of falling into the emotional trap of "I need to get pregnant right NOW" Take the time to heal your heart and soul. Also ask the doctor health wise be very realistic too early could cause major health issues.
Listen to your heart it will always give you the best answer and you'll know when your ready.
Best wishes to you be strong and have faith in your heart
How far along were you?
Even if your body is ready, make sure you give your brain time to heal too.
I am so sorry to hear that hun! I know how bad that feels :( I'll say a prayer for you :) We had a miscarriage August of last year and we didn't start trying again til April of this year and we got our BFP May 20th. I waited cause I didn't wanna go through that again so soon. That was my 3rd loss. I think it's okay to try when you are ready. Your body will probably heal much faster than the emotional part. Like the other ladies said, make sure you are ready both ways first. Good luck and lots of Sticky Baby Dust to you!
I'm really sorry. Hugs. You should talk to your doctor about when it will be safe to start. I'm pretty sure that as long as everything passed, you should be able to start trying with your next cycle. What really matters is that you start when you are ready.
I am sorry for your loss. Only you can decide this. I went through two last year within four months of each other. It has been close to 9 months and all the sudden I feel ready again.
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