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I'm scared

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tansydreams

on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:59 AM

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We've been ttc for a few months, and I got a BFP on Monday- three days before my period is due. I'm so excited, but I'm also super scared. The only other time I've been prego I lost it at eight weeks. 12 weeks seems so far away! I'm afraid to tell people. We only plan to have one child, and I don't want to miss out on the joy of anymoment of this wonderful experience because I'm scared. I just want my butter bean to stick!

Thank you

tansydreams

on Sep. 25, 2013 at 9:59 AM

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alkakfnxcpoem

Bronze Member on Sep. 25, 2013 at 10:26 AM

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Congratulations!

You don't have to wait until 12 weeks to tell, I didn't. I told family and close friends right away, then announced it when I had my first ultrasound at 8 weeks. But I totally understand your apprehension with having already lost at 8 weeks, I'd probably want to wait too.

kmqw229

Ruby Member on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:42 AM

Good luck!

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lillucky8

on Sep. 26, 2013 at 8:43 AM

Congrats! I hope everything goes well :)

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funhappymom

on Sep. 26, 2013 at 3:38 PM

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Someone once told me to enjoy each moment you have with your baby and before you know it he/she will be here. That's what I tried to do when pregnant after my miscarriages. Good luck.

Chaos1229

Tasha on Sep. 26, 2013 at 3:49 PM

Congratulations ! I understand your apprehension just relax alot of women wait until 10 weeks to announce. Don't stress your little angel will be here sooner than you think.

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Mandy on Sep. 26, 2013 at 5:46 PM

Congrats! Just take it one day at a time.

LeeBug32

on Sep. 26, 2013 at 5:51 PM

Congratulations! Can you see your doctor early?

nathans_fiance

on Sep. 26, 2013 at 5:55 PM

Congrats! Good Luck!

tansydreams

on Sep. 26, 2013 at 6:13 PM

I have an appointment on tuesday, but my doctor kinda sux.

Quoting LeeBug32:

Congratulations! Can you see your doctor early?

LeeBug32

on Sep. 26, 2013 at 6:25 PM

That stinks. My doctors didn't want to seem to help after my first miscarriage. Even after my second. They told me I had to have 3. They have run a lot of tests this pregnancy and I haven't received the results, but I'm now 16 weeks. Good luck to you.