My boyfriend and I just lost a baby before and I dont know how to tell him that I am pregnant now.
Just tell him
I'm sorry for your loss
I'm sorry for your loss. You just tell him as hard as it may be or if you are worried. It is better to get it out there.
I'm so sorry that you lost your baby :( ... As for telling your BF, that's all on your comfort level. If it were me, I would just tell him, however I've never been in your position so I can't say that I would for sure. But, another suggestion could be to wait until yoru 12 weeks. At that point, that's when the chances of miscarrying drops quite a bit, and might give him some relief. But to be honest, just my opinion...I think he would want to go through this with you instead of letting you go through it on your own. I hope that you consider telling him, practice in a mirror if you need to and give yourself a time limit. Write a note, and for example say your time limit that you gave yourself to tell him is Friday. If you haven't or can't tell him by that time, give him the note, that way you can't take it back. I hope it all works out for you both *hugs*
If it were my husband I think he would still want to know. I would still be excited and tell him. Its okay to be worried still but there's no reason you can't be just as excited and happy. I'm sorry for your loss but congratulations on pregnancy!
Sorry to hear about your loss. I wish I would've told DH in some special way but I've just either texted him or left a test for him to see. Good luck and sticky dust =0)
Just tell him, Im pregnant too after a miscarriage and my husband was really happy when I told him. It's really nerve raking this time around since every little thing worries me a lot but having his support helps a lot. Good luck!
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