1st, 2nd, and 3rd were all seemingly welcomed additions. While DH & I are happy about #4, I was warned by my (tactless) FIL that it's not wanted after my SIL announced hers. It came about with my saying that I had been craving the dessert that my MIL had made that day and it was said without skipping a beat, so I tend to think that he's totally serious and they really don't want anymore babies from us. I could understand if they were helping us in any way, but they're not. We are totally independent and rely on 0 assistance, so I'm really struggling to see what the problem is. My family knows and while I was met with some disgust from my grandmother, everyone else was great about it. I'm actually debating not telling my ILs at all and letting them figure it out on their own. SIL asks if I'm "riding that boat again" every time I see her, I'd love to have a super snarky comeback, but I'm not that quick of a thinker >.<
Would you tell them or just wait it out?
on Dec. 7, 2013 at 2:54 PM