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my dh told the doctor *updated

Posted by on Dec. 10, 2013 at 7:52 PM
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That when we go to have the c-section that he wants my tubes tied. I'm only 21 an this is my second pregnancy, I want 3 kids but dh said he doesn't want anymore an if I don't get them tied that he will leave us. . .
I have a 2yr old from a previous relationship an now this one. He has a son that lives in Washington with his mom but he never sees him.

I told him I really don't want it done but he doesn't seem to listen :(

Should I try to talk to him more or just get it done?


*Update*

I had my baby on June 30th an I did not get my tubes tied. I talked with my doctor an told him that I didn't want it done, he even tried to get me to do it, but I held my ground an said no.
by on Dec. 10, 2013 at 7:52 PM
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Proud-USMC-Wife
by Ashley on Dec. 10, 2013 at 7:55 PM
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If he doesn't want more he needs to get a vasectomy!
JacknJill
by Bronze Member on Dec. 10, 2013 at 7:56 PM
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Why can't he get a vasectomy?
beadingmom17
by Silver Member on Dec. 10, 2013 at 7:57 PM
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Did you guys not talk about this before marriage?
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gingermommy86
by Member on Dec. 10, 2013 at 7:58 PM
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I know here (MS) you usually have to be 23+ or already have 3 kids... but he should get a vasectomy you shouldnt have to go permanent if you are not ready...
nicole4ray
by Bronze Member on Dec. 10, 2013 at 7:59 PM
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Your body, your choice. If you don't want it done you shouldn't have it done.
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norahsmommy
by Silver Member on Dec. 10, 2013 at 7:59 PM
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Don't do it if you aren't sure. If he doesn't want more HE can get a vasectomy.
lonelymommyof2
by on Dec. 10, 2013 at 8:07 PM
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Don't do it! You are so young. You will regret it. Plus your body and most doctors won't that young unless its a health reason
Elayna90
by Member on Dec. 10, 2013 at 8:08 PM
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It's your body. If HE does not want more kids, then he cam take care of that. Don't let him be the one to make that decision for you.
If he chooses to leave over you not being sure, than that is on him and not you.
BellaMama7
by Member on Dec. 10, 2013 at 8:16 PM
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I know here where i am, they wont tie your tubes until your a specific age & only if you have a medical purpose to have it done.

lovleopards
by Elyssia on Dec. 10, 2013 at 8:17 PM
He says because I have insurance an they will pay for it. An he has no insurance. My doctor says you have to be at least 21 an I will be 22 when this baby is born
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