I'm having a dilemma with my in-laws, well mainly my mil. My husband and I decided to have my brother and his girlfriend, who is a huge part of our family and they plan on marrying soon, they just want to finish their schooling first. When my husband told his parents of "our" decision they flipped out! Stating things that we need to pick one from each side and that it's not fair. They were really upset that we didn't choose his brother to be the godfather and even when I told them about how nasty his brother treats me they said that shouldn't matter. When trying to tell them that none of this was done out of spite his mom proceeded to call me a bunch of names. She also told us that everything so far with the pregnancy has been very one-sided. She was upset because we told my parents even though we were at their house about an hour after telling mine. She said it was dumb how we told them yet my husband and I thought long and hard because we wanted to do something creative. She's basically saying I'm not included her in on anything when she went with me to my frist appt and got to see the sonogram when my mom didn't and I've even asked her to be in the delievery room. She's since appologized for everything but not before making a comment that she needs to be appologized to as well. I don't know what to do in this situation because she's now acting like nothings wrong when I know it's going to happen again.