My husband cheated on me recently and got a woman pregnant. I forgave him and we are working things out. The "baby mama" for lack of a beter term wants him to be in the delivery room with her while giving birth. I want him to take responsability for the child. But, I think child birth is a very intimate moment shared between couples. Not affair lovers. Am I wrong forbnot wanting him there? Im trying to keep the peace for the childs sake. Me and my huaband have 3 kids together already, in my eyes its like having 2 families and putting us on the back burner. What do you think?