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Sex in the first trimester...

Posted by on Apr. 1, 2014 at 11:13 PM
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Do you have sex in the first trimester? DH and I have been wanting to do it but I'm kinda scared it will hurt the baby.. do you think it's okay?
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KREX0914
by Kristen-Danielle on Apr. 1, 2014 at 11:19 PM
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Even if it were possible to hurt the baby (which unless you are into some REALLY kinky stuff I wouldn't worry about) at 3 months the baby is only about the size of a kidney bean ... How mcuh damage can you do to a kidney bean floating in a bowl of water that is holding on by a rope? Not much, I would imagine.

TS9509
by Bronze Member on Apr. 1, 2014 at 11:20 PM
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Unless your doctor says no sex or it's uncomfortable have all the sex you want.
Heather2001
by Heather on Apr. 1, 2014 at 11:20 PM
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It's fine.  Won't hurt the baby at all.

masesmom
by on Apr. 1, 2014 at 11:21 PM
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You can have sex throughout pregnancy unless your doctor suggests otherwise. Talk to your doctor about any risks you personally may have.

FitMom479
by Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 12:06 AM
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You will be okay! Take advantage of those sexual moments now! ;-) The further along you get the more uncomfortable it is. My hubby and I rarely have sex now becuase it hurts and I cramp and contract afterwards.
Devious103102
by Ruby Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 12:36 AM
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As long as there's no issues with the pregnancy you're fine. 

Decemberlov
by Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 8:21 AM
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it's fine, no worries! my sex drive is through the roof lately. I'm 11 weeks.
EmilyH87
by Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 3:32 PM

So long as your doctor hasn't told you not to, go for it. You can't hurt baby, so take advantage now. Cause by the time the third trimester rolls around, you might not EVER feel like it at all.

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gingerprincess
by Bronze Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 3:35 PM
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Now I want kidney beans! Lol

Quoting KREX0914:

Even if it were possible to hurt the baby (which unless you are into some REALLY kinky stuff I wouldn't worry about) at 3 months the baby is only about the size of a kidney bean ... How mcuh damage can you do to a kidney bean floating in a bowl of water that is holding on by a rope? Not much, I would imagine.

lorelei10
by Member on Apr. 2, 2014 at 3:38 PM

Totally safe, through the whole pregnancy assuming your doctor tells you its ok. There are very few condtions in which it isnt safe so you are probably in the green.

Get it while you can!!!

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