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HELP!

Posted by on May. 12, 2014 at 1:10 AM
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I'm not a mom.. but, I don't really know what to do.. I'm  20 years old, my live in boyfriend and I just broke up.. we had unprotected drunk sex about three weeks ago.. now, my period is due between the 1st NEVER later than the 7th of every month, and we're on day 12.. 

I  have PMS like symptoms, but no period.. 

I usually have horrible cramping and I only had one day of it.

My boobs hurt, and kinda feel weird.. like it's hard to explain and it's only on my nipple area and closer to it.. some days they hurt worse than others.

I feel sick to my stomach sometimes, but never actually throw up..

I just want to know if I could be pregnant, or what..

before I go and buy a test.. does this make sense?
I'm kinda scared because if I am, the baby's dad and I wont even be living in the same state! Do I have to tell him? He told me when we broke up he wanted nothing to do with me.. and I mean, I'm not being cold or vindictive, but.. I'm really confused.. :( 

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bethieboo88
by Bethany on May. 12, 2014 at 1:13 AM
If you had sex you could be pregnant. Take a test and good luck.
booaura
by Aurabella on May. 12, 2014 at 1:14 AM
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If you've had sex, you could be pregnant. Telling the bio father is up to you. Figure out first if you are pregnant, and remember you do have options, abortion or adoption, along with parenting.
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Pandapanda
by Cafe Panda on May. 12, 2014 at 7:29 AM
First you need to test. Stress can delay your period, too.

WillsMOM72
by Stephanie on May. 12, 2014 at 7:53 AM
I'd take a test.
VicVinegar
by Keila on May. 12, 2014 at 7:59 AM

This

Quoting booaura: If you've had sex, you could be pregnant. Telling the bio father is up to you. Figure out first if you are pregnant, and remember you do have options, abortion or adoption, along with parenting.


Brandibee_5
by 7/30/14 on May. 12, 2014 at 8:30 AM
Those symptoms sound like early pregnancy. Take a test! You can get one for .88 at Walmart.
lillucky8
by on May. 12, 2014 at 8:44 AM
Id say get a test! Let us know how it turns out! Good luck hun
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kmqw229
by Ruby Member on May. 12, 2014 at 8:54 AM
Try testing, and go from there. Good luck!
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PeppyInPink
by Bronze Member on May. 12, 2014 at 8:59 AM
No one can tell you if you could be as the signs are often signs of millions of other things too, even a doctor will do tests too but its possible bc you had sex. I suggest you test bc that's the only way to know especially since you're late. There's a big possibility. Its worth paying the .98 cents for one at Walmart.
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