Something no-one wants to talk about but every woman SHOULD
I'm getting ready to have my fourth repeat c-section plus a tubal and recently my df and I discussed what would happen if something we're to go wrong. While it's not something I even WANT to think about I believe it's very important for all pregnant women to talk about with their SO and family members. I tried talking to my mom but she kinda refused and blew it off saying Oh you'll be fine. However the fate of my kids and unborn baby is NOT something I want to leave up to the unknown.
I have two older kids (11 & 9) with my ex and my SO and I have a 18month son together. I want it to be well known what my wishes are. I want my older kids to go stay with my mom who will let my ex have them on the weekends and my df and son to get together with my mom at least every other Sunday. I want my yds and this baby to be with their dad with my mom helping when/how she can. Although I know my older kids would HAVE to live with their dad I want my mom to fight to get at least joint custody.
In the event that the doctors for whatever reason can only save me or the baby I want baby to be saved at all cost.
Ok ladies I want to know, have you discussed the "what ifs" with your SO? Do you know what you want to happen in a worst case scenario? Share it here!