My girls saw their sister born when they were 6 years old and 3 years old. My oldest knew at 3 years old when our second was born. She was not there but she could have been. My youngest at three knows already. They ask and we tell them truthfully.
When I was preg with DD3 my DD1 & 2 were 4.5 and 3, they asked how they the baby was going to get out of my belly so I sat down and we watched a couple of those birthing shows on TLC. It helped, lol.
My almost 11 yo doesn't know yet but we will have that chat soon since her period is around the corner. Shes away for the summer for the most part and will be back in August so we will have the chat then. But it's different for her since she doesn't understand things as easily. She has developmental delay with autism and even though she's very smart, some things are way over her head.
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