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Posted by on Aug. 10, 2014 at 10:35 PM
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I'm almost 29 weeks...my son is 2 weeks bigger than he should be..so..needless to say I'm sore and tired. My husband finds me more attractive than ever and wants to have sex all the time. I'm just not into it...I actually get angry when he touches me right now. He is always wanting to fool around even if we arent actually having sex. Idk what to do...I don't want this to come between us. I'm just grouchy as can be...I hurt..I'm tired...and can't find a position that's comfortable. ..
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baby7810
by Bronze Member on Aug. 10, 2014 at 10:42 PM
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I just try to help him out. Give him a happy ending another way. Sorry your sore, I remember that.
booaura
by Aurabella on Aug. 10, 2014 at 10:44 PM
Just talk to him, explain how you feel.
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_ethansmommy
by Member on Aug. 10, 2014 at 10:45 PM
I'm just the opposite and encourage the attention!! Sorry you feel so poopy!!
b1the1change
by Member on Aug. 10, 2014 at 10:45 PM
Idk what to say...I'm 26 weeks and post surgery and I'm horny as ever. Bump for you though
Larsbug
by Laura on Aug. 10, 2014 at 11:19 PM

 tell him that...

sapphirelibra
by Bronze Member on Aug. 11, 2014 at 12:28 AM
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My husband thinks I am a goddess when pregnant. Everything from head to toe, he adores. The bigger I get the more attractive he finds me. I'm only 6 weeks and he is already talking about how excited he is about me getting big. He even pulled out pictures from our previous pregnancies the other day...holy sh*t, I got big! So his favorite- that he cannot wait for- is when you're so big that your boobs rest on your belly when you're sitting....or in the tub...preferably the tub. Just talking about it gets him excited.. At 6 weeks along, I feel OK one minute then blah and the next. He's ready when I'm able!!
I'd say 65% of the time, I am Not feeling it but when I do feel good and want it also, idk about you, it feels amazing. To me, pregnant sex, it's like no other. It's like a little bonus that you only get when you're pregnant. But because it's so great, your body will make sure you feel like crap half the time so you can't enjoy it fully..that's pregnancy.
I feel like crap right now!
MixedCooke
by on Aug. 11, 2014 at 1:07 AM

yep a happy ending another way so you can still feel intimate without necessarily being intimate.  Im 37 weeks and it feels really good now.

Jsanchez125
by Bronze Member on Aug. 11, 2014 at 3:30 AM
I feel your pain, it never feels good. I'm 22 weeks but I'm humongous. This is my 3rd and my other two were never this big. I also know how you feel on the angry part. It's just really irritating, and even just squeezing my boobs hurt. I have not found a solution.

I kind of just lay there an take it. 😞
Dreamer077
by New Member on Aug. 11, 2014 at 5:10 PM
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I'm 28 weeks and feel about the same thing! I just help him out other ways .. I mean I rather help him then him watch porn lol 

Serabeth06
by Bronze Member on Aug. 11, 2014 at 5:54 PM

I'm the same, there are times when I'm grouchy and just don't want anyone near me, much less touching on me. :/ I just explained to my DH how I was feeling, that it wasn't him, it was just the hormones, the soreness, and the crankiness. Now he waits for me to "make a move" before getting frisky, I normally just snuggle up to him, and it's worked out for us so far.

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