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Sex while pregnant?

Posted by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 11:21 PM
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So my husband and I have only had sex like 3 times a month this past 2-3 months because whenever we do I get really sharp pains and it catches me off guard last time I started crying because I wasn't expecting it & because I want to enjoy it but I can't, it's too painful. My ob just said it's because my uterus tilts some but would that really cause sharp pains??
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 11:21 PM
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Imperfect_Faith
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 11:35 PM
I have no idea, I haven't had an issues with sex. I'm 10 weeks.
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anotherandree
by on Nov. 4, 2014 at 11:39 PM

I tend to bleed (a bit) when we've had sex and that freaks me out.  So...we just find other ways to enjoy each other. :)

LittleRed80
by Bronze Member on Nov. 5, 2014 at 12:26 AM
Pains in your vagina? Sounds like your cervix. It's more sensitive when pregnant so if your partner rubs it at all it may hurt. Try positions where you are more in control of how deep it goes. The spooning position works well for some preggos.
SrkStrickland
by on Nov. 5, 2014 at 8:12 AM

I have had the same problem with this pregnancy. I've been left in tears each time. We normally shoot for every other day or at 3 every few days but it's been spaced out to weeks at this point because it's so painful for me :( It sucks!

caitipenn
by on Nov. 5, 2014 at 10:33 AM
I have a tilted uterus. Sex wasn't comfortable for me either till we found the right position. Inlay on my side and he is behind me. Maybe try different things and see what works?
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corber2114
by on Nov. 5, 2014 at 7:40 PM
Thank you guys for the advice I'll see what I can do!
spooky415
by on Nov. 5, 2014 at 7:42 PM
He never wants to have sex lol. And when we do its pretty rushed. Hopefully we'll get back into it soon bc my sex drive is insane right now.
MamaBearEH
by Silver Member on Nov. 5, 2014 at 7:44 PM
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Hopefully you can find a good position.  I was never able to... Lol... so glad I have THE most understanding partner about it.

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