Soo I was sitting here a few minutes ago thinking about the baby coming and all of a sudden I got really scared I started thinking wow its never gonna be us again there will always be someone else here with us and were gonna have all this responsibility and all these other things....is this normal? Is it just because I'm at the end of my pregnancy and its finally hitting me were actually gonna have a baby??? I mean don't get me wrong this was something we planned and I couldn't be happier but it just seems like all of a sudden I have these fears about being a parent. Does everyone go thru something like this?
Yes, it's very normal to have these thoughts! But-what you are going to think is even crazier is once the baby is here you will not be able to imagine life with out that baby! Everything just falls into place and it's like that little person has been there forever. It's very weird, yet so amazing!
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i did the nite before my induction i was so stressed and freaking out! lol but its normal and once you have and hold that baby it will all fade all you will think about is the baby good luck!
I'm doing the same thing... From time to time it all just seems overwhelming... But I've read a lot of books and websites that say that's how a lot of people feel before the baby is born.... And like another poster said... If our lives aren't complete crap then it seems hard to think that it could be better... I think what my husband and I have is pretty much perfect... But once this new man comes into our lives I think we'll continue to think just that, just in other ways! :D You'll be fine!!
It is completely normal!! I am due between now and Next Friday!! If I don't have my Ariana by next Friday I will be induced! I have been freaking out, completely!! I am so ready for this pregnancy to be over, but at the same time I am not! I want to have my body back, but I want to enjoy the time I have left with my hubby!! I love him, and I am really afraid and nervous about what all is going to change!!
it hasnt happened to me yet.. i guess im to busy being impatient because its seems like ive been pregnant for 6 years and im ready for teh baby to be here. but My boyfriend was freaking out this morning asking "do you think i will be a good dad? what if i dont know what to do when he cries?" and some other questions i guess it just hit him this morning and im almost 35 weeks
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- Whitney2207
on Oct. 23, 2008 at 8:09 PM