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did you find out the sex of your baby?

Posted by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 3:23 PM
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Question: Did you wait to find out the gender of your baby?

Options:

1) Yes

2) No

3) Didn't want to but found out by accident

4) Wanted to but hubby (or other relatives) didn't want me to so I had to

5) Other


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hey all mommies and mommies to be...

just a quick question

wondering if any of you waited to find out the sex (till the birth of your baby)....i'm going on #3 and never found out the sex (just love surprises).........just wondering...would love to hear your stories THANKS!

Posted by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 3:23 PM
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DMcC
by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 3:26 PM

I haven't found out the sex yet. I go in tomorrow to hopefully find out.

doulala
by Emerald Member on Nov. 19, 2008 at 3:27 PM

No, not I~ With my pregnancies, I have never had any ultrasounds. So learning the gender wasn't possible! IF i had U/Ss I might have asked...



The knowledge of how to give birth without outside intervention lies deep within each woman. Successful childbirth depends on an acceptance of the process. ~Suzanne Arms


Birth is not an emergency. It is simply an emergence.” - Jeannine Parvati Baker

Atragedy999
by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 3:28 PM

I found out with both.  My 1st was a boy, and this one is going to be a girl!

~A Tragedy~

sylviapike26
by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 3:31 PM

I found out with both of mine.  Both are boys...I would totally go crazy if I didn't find out...LOL

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BraydensMama163
by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 3:43 PM

I could deal with not knowing, but I can't take having to wait to buy things...and I hate white tan and yellow!!! My favorite colors believe it or not are blue and pink...I'd have to know just so i could buy things

BraydensMama163
by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 3:44 PM

Isn't that unsafe? What if something was to happen? Your not scared about not being able to track their weight or anything? I couldn't go without an ultrasound...I over worry

Quoting doulala:

No, not I~ With my pregnancies, I have never had any ultrasounds. So learning the gender wasn't possible! IF i had U/Ss I might have asked...

 

 


doulala
by Emerald Member on Nov. 19, 2008 at 3:56 PM

Unsafe?  I don't see how, lots of women decline them.  U/Ss can only give estimates on things like weight.  By having an experienced pair of hands (or several of them) to palpate, we could get an idea just as reasonable.  There are so many ways to watch baby.  And besides, the weight is irrelevant!  ;-)

The medical community has said that U/Ss should be saved for specific uses, concerns, weighing the risks (potential risks) is a consideration.    As a healthy pregnant woman I didn't want to mess with a good thing.

Quoting BraydensMama163:

Isn't that unsafe? What if something was to happen? Your not scared about not being able to track their weight or anything? I couldn't go without an ultrasound...I over worry



Birth is not only about making babies. Birth is about making mothers ~ strong, competent, capable mothers who trust themselves and know their inner strength.

~Barbara Katz Rothma


When you change the way you view birth, the way you birth will change. -Mongan


mommyny6
by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 4:06 PM

i always said i wasnt going to find out but i cant wait ive always found out..

Arreis
by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 4:12 PM

I am the same way, I found out as soon as possible because we had been trying for so long we had tons of green and yellow and tan stuff and I wanted to know if I could buy Blues or pinks because my hubby wouldn't let me until we knew what it was. (Little girl)

Quoting BraydensMama163:

I could deal with not knowing, but I can't take having to wait to buy things...and I hate white tan and yellow!!! My favorite colors believe it or not are blue and pink...I'd have to know just so i could buy things


ScorpionMomof2
by on Nov. 19, 2008 at 4:20 PM


Quoting doulala:

No, not I~ With my pregnancies, I have never had any ultrasounds. So learning the gender wasn't possible! IF i had U/Ss I might have asked...

 

 

I've heard of some women not opting to do U/S also some women do it when they plan home births which I think is awesome!  Why did you choose not to if you dont mind me asking?? :O)  Just curious...

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