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pregnant....TMITMI!!!sorry

Posted by on May. 15, 2009 at 12:11 AM
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okay so my SO and i havent been able to have sex due to stitches not healing quickly enough.so we have been fooling around.im worried now since i heard that you can get pregnant without penetration.an ob/gyn from a show  i watch called the doctors said it can happen.i know that precum holds majority of the sperm and i know that precum was close to my vajayjay area 2 wks ago.im really nervous now.i know the likelyhood is slim...but still.i dont know what i would do if we were pregnant again.should i stop worrying or should i talk to my doctor?

Posted by on May. 15, 2009 at 12:11 AM
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kelleysangels
by on May. 15, 2009 at 12:18 AM

I have only heard of it happening once in my entire life.  I mean I know that it is possible, but I think that you are fine.  I have been in that position a WHOLE bunch of times and not once did I get pregnant from it.   So I think that you are okay.  Good luck.

Carlisle4TNL
by on May. 15, 2009 at 12:20 AM

If it made u feel more comfortable to talk wit ur doc cool....but I think u shouldn't worry, just relax. Fooling around might actually help u heal faster as long as u guys aren't ruff wit it, LOL.

TruthNLove

Pandana
by Silver Member on May. 15, 2009 at 12:23 AM


Quoting vickster988:

i know that precum holds majority of the sperm

Actually, "precum" does not technically contain sperm, as it is nt from the same gland. It can, however, contain some after passing through the urethra because sperm from previous ejaculations can actually "survive" in the urethra and be expelled through that pre-ejaculatory fluid. But it is usually a very small amount. That fluid is primarily a lubricant, but a good spurt of it will often precede ejaculation as a way of clearing the urethra for the NEW sperm to pass through. An egg CAN be fertilized by that sperm via the "precum" fluid, but the chances of that are very small compared with actual ejaculatory fluid.

Also, yes, you CAN get pregnant without even actually penetrating, but it's rather unliekly. Sperm can only survive a short time outside of the body, and IF expelled near enough to the entrance of the vagina to actual enter it, there is a SMALL chance of fertilization occurring. But it's FAR less likely than if ejaculation occurs with penetration.

So if "precum" was "very close" to your vajyajy, I wouldn't worry too much, because that's two strikes against the liklihood of conception. It IS possible, but the likelihod is very, very small.

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